Maybe if you happen to highlight my content box...
u will be able to see what i wrote....
My temper is not really good.....
or....
My character is really trouble some...
i heard lot lot..
but i was commented that my EQ is not good..
1st time of the sort....
i take it.. of course.. a comment..
other might look you better than you look yourself..
i tried to ask why.....
but they look at each other..
and give some excuse not to answer..
hee gals..
if really this way.. i take it..
but do tell me why..
so i can reflect and know also..
dun need to be scare i angry or what..
not explaining to me might left me thinking abt it all day long....
can tried to leave comment to let me know how and why can?
i have comment column in here... ha
but if is becos i comment on boss, then to protect, i got the comment..
then i feel not really nice k!!!!
anyway... many mistook what is EQ!!!
Emotional Intelligence (EI) describes the ability, capacity, skill or, in the case of the trait EI model, a self-perceived ability, to identify, assess, and manage the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups.
no time to write myself.. just copy from web la....
not that i want to follow my decision and not to follow gp decision mean my EQ got problem..
gals.....
if this way. i would rather blame it on my character...
sister who known me years.. know that..
i dun want means i dun want..
not that i dun feel your emotion and dun understand your emotion..
but just that this is the way i am..
friend, accept it.... and understand it..
also might because... i have a world that is different or a complex character that i really think that not much people understand..
sometimes on some topic i will try to share why i think like that and why i do that.
and even to extent to try to explain why i am this way....
but if this single and different character let you think that my EQ is bad..
i am real sorry..
not that i didnt care.
but i just think that...
i dun want to force myself to do thing just becos the whole gp does this way....
then if i force myself to do it...
i will be having not a very nice face in total..............
not that i am not aware of the social's network emotion..
i am aware.. thus i try to explain so that i can manage the conter party's feeling as well..
that me...
those who known me years.. knows it....
if one think that they will be paiseh that they might wanna do something..
but i dun want and wish that i do the things together becos they really will fee bad that i am being left out...
dun need...
i dun feel its necessary..
cos in turn it make me think that i am the black sheep to make your do the things another way just to compromise me....
ha....
i am really ok with it de!!!!!
being tan bai.. is one thing for me ba!!!
ha of course... not that i cannot adapt..
just that i dun want to adapt to something which i dun like and dun wish to.
nothing big deal about adapting...
but habit is something that grows within....
of course one can say is just excuse..
but ok no big deal admiting is excuse if that habit is mine....
not adapting to some stuff...
i am not intruding others, i also dun believe not doing that stuff i will let your feel the world is down!!!
if i just do it the way people say i should, that not me...
if i am to adapt... it is to my own discret.... and to my own "eurika" experience to say its time to do so....
if is necessary like working.. i adapt..
or time for a social big public event.. i adapt...
if is to my own discretion.. i decide myself..
not to what other say i should..
this will be gp or social induce!!! its negative...
welcome to comment why i like that de...
also feel free to say i not cooperative.. but this is not EQ low....
like what i share, of course i will need to react and compromise some times...
even though i dun feel like..
but if circumstance i think i should..
i will go with the flow.....
cos i cannot be wet blanket alway..
but if the activity is asking me whether i want or not..
i think i will have the right to ask and enquiry about..
since people are doing so too.. why i cant right..
yeah to see if you are knowledgeable to answer is one thing..
but yeah..
since you ask.... i can question!!!!
but one thing.. sensitivity... i believe i got..
i know tons of people who dun know..
and tons who is not ti liang enough...
but i am sure not to have it when something reach my limit..
and not all people meet my this kind of situation la..
except family member la..
they always see my this side....
ok just a bit dun understand since this is the 1st time i got this comment..
thus do really wish to know why?????
but all humans should learn to be ti liang.. this is difficult...... people with high EQ will have tons of ti liang's ability...
but i do really think is my character!!!! not EQ!!!!
just like how your are like!!!
will always be friend and kagi and colleague....
i accpet your character with both hands!!!!
heee!!!!
just a message across to what i feel...
no harm.. no provoke... no anger!!!!
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